This Thanksgiving, when we sit down with our turkeys and pumpkin pies,
the odds are that we have some pictures of Pilgrims in the room--not real
Pilgrims, but those kids’ versions with black hats and buckle shoes. We will
tell children that on Thanksgiving Pilgrims got helped by the Indians and gave
thanks. Yet in almost every detail, we get it wrong. The real story is much
more complicated.
The story began in England in 1609. The Anglican Church, believed the
whole church should worship like them. The Puritans (not the pilgrims) said all
churches should be under their version of strict Biblical law. Neither side
wanted religious freedom. Both wanted to either convert or destroy the other.
In the middle was the pastor of a little church in Weymouth,
England--William Brewster. He believed that English society was too bad to
reform, and that believers should leave the country and start the Kingdom of
God elsewhere. He and his followers were forced to leave the country. They
landed in Leyden, Holland.
Unfortunately, Holland wasn’t any better. While they could practice
their religion, they weren’t allowed to own property or practice a trade unless
they were part of Dutch Reformed.
Brewster and his little flock had an idea. They would move to the New
World. Unfortunately, once again they made a huge mistake. You can’t just leave
for New England, you had to have the king’s permission, and the king of England
hated them.
They thought they found a loophole that would enable them to go to New
England. The king gave permission for a group of businessmen to start a new
colony. These men were more than happy to have them in New England, for a
price. They could go, if they gave half of their money to their sponsor. The
Pilgrims reluctantly agreed.
So, they put their money together and bought a ship for the journey. It
was called the Speedwell—a leaky
bucket of rust and barnacles, barely able to leave Holland, but they were stuck
with it. Pastor Brewster, refused to go. They loaded their belongings on the ship
and headed for New England.
It soon became obvious that the Speedwell
wasn’t going to make it to America, so their backers hired another ship to go
with them called the Mayflower. It
was a good thing too, because the Speedwell
did not make it past England before it sank. So, the 41 Pilgrims joined a
motley group of 61 other settlers and sailors on board the Mayflower for the three month voyage to the New World. They were
stuck on a boat with a group of money-grubbing adventurers and profane sailors
who thought the Pilgrims were the funniest people they had ever seen.
Over the three months, the other passengers came to regard the Pilgrims
with respect, and some even joined them.
The Pilgrims believed that God would take care of them, but so far,
however, everything had gone wrong. Every time they started doing what God
wanted them to do, they wound up in a worse mess.
We think if we trust God, then happiness is just around the corner. But
sometimes, the only thing around the corner is another corner.
When the Mayflower arrived (at
Cape Cod, not Plymouth Rock), they expected to either find an unspoiled
wilderness or friendly Indians. But two years before they arrived, small pox
had wiped out eighty percent of the Native Americans in New England. Everywhere
they saw abandoned villages and empty fields. There were tribes still there,
but they were too busy fighting each other to pay attention.
When they established their
colony, to look like an English village. They planted the cash crops that grew
in Virginia and Carolina such as tobacco, sugar, and indigo. None of them grew.
Tobacco doesn’t grow in Massachusetts. Not only that, the winter was the
hardest ever recorded. Over half of the Pilgrims died the first year of cold
and starvation.
Then in the spring, a nearly naked man walked into camp and addressed
them in perfect English. He was Samoset, a Native American who had spent time
as a sailor on an English fishing boat. He welcomed them to the New World.
Later, he returned with Squanto, the chief or the Massasoit tribe. They showed
them how to plant crops that would grow and how to keep warm in the winter.
What they didn’t know was that this tribe was with war with other tribes, and
wanted their guns for protection. Later, they would call upon them to fight.
One day the tribe dropped in for dinner. There were about forty
colonists and about a hundred and fifty Indians. There were no turkeys, but
plenty of wild game. The natives ate them out of most of their supplies, and if
it weren’t for the Massasoit bringing wild game, they would have starved. But
in the end, they gave thanks and survived.
Was this Thanksgiving? Not really, the Pilgrims gave thanks every day. They
praised God regularly even as disasters hit.
Which brings us to Philippians 4: 10-13 Paul wrote to the Galatians that
he had been stoned, shipwrecked, imprisoned, beaten, starved, persecuted, and
treated with contempt. But like the Pilgrims, he kept praising God. He learned
to be content.
How do people like Paul and the Pilgrims learn to be content when awful
things happen? They had to learn this kind of peace. We think we can never be
content with our life situation, especially if our situation includes divorce, death
or illness. We think that our good days are over forever. We never think we’ll
love or laugh again. But we can learn contentment, nevertheless.
First, we learn contentment by studying who God is and what He is doing
for us. Here’s a few basic facts we need to learn about Him.
1. That He created heaven and earth, and called
all things good. Everything in life
that we enjoy in life comes from the hand of God. Satan created nothing. Even
forbidden pleasures are pleasures that God created. He gave us the capacity to
receive and appreciate pleasure.
You may think your life is miserable, but why? You wouldn’t know misery
unless you have sometime experienced its opposite. Even the absence of
contentment is a sign that God created us to experience contentment.
2. That we will all
die someday. God creates us to
spend eternity in heaven, not in these frail bodies on earth. There is only one
way to get there, and that is death. All the things we’d rather avoid are part
of the ordinary cycle of life and death. They are not bad in themselves, but are
part of something that is ultimately good, a journey from birth to heaven.
3. That God loves us and shares our sufferings. Since suffering must exist until death has
been destroyed, God chooses as a demonstration of His love to suffer our pains
with us. His incarnation in Jesus proves that. God entered our lives by the
Holy Spirit, not just to give us strength, but to assure us that He is
alongside us in our sufferings.
When Paul says, “I can do all
things through Christ who strengthens me,” he is not promising us super
powers! Instead he’s saying that we can
endure whatever life throws at us when we are in Christ. He is not taking us
out of the cycle of birth, sickness and death, but is saying that Christ
suffers with us.
4. That sufferings are temporary, but blessings
are permanent. Our real joys in
Christ are made permanent in heaven.
We don’t appreciate what God does, because we can’t see life from His
perspective. When we see a great tragedy, we ask ourselves, “How could God
allow so many people to die?” In heaven they ask, “Why does God so bless these
saints so that so many have entered heaven?” Leaving this world is going to
God, where suffering has ended.
The more we study and know God’s mind and heart, the more thankful we
become for what He brings to pass.
Learning to be content requires practice as well as study. We must
practice giving thanks for everything, large and small.
Giving thanks is a spiritual exercise well known among the Puritans.
They understood that giving thanks turns our hearts from seeing our problems to
seeing our blessings. It reminds us all the time that God is in control.
Practice giving thanks daily by making a “gratitude journal.” Keep a daily list of things to be thankful
for. I have begun doing this recently. At the top of my list is always
this—that I am personally and specifically loved by God. I may not always feel
it, but I always know it. Christ died on the cross, not just for everyone’s
sins, but for mine specifically.
Then, I give thanks for the small joys of everyday life—the joys of
life, the weather, beauty, the sheer joy of breathing and being alive. I can
appreciate the small blessings too.
Finally, I thank God for the big blessings in my life like my salvation,
my life, and my joys. A recognition of these blessings lifted me out of
temporary funks and frustrations. I try not to compare myself to others, but
try to appreciate what God has given me overall, in the full span of life.
Suppose that God suddenly today gave you a gift. Suppose you could step
out of time and space and see at one glance the day of your birth through the
day of your death. Some would have longer lives than others, but most lives
would follow a similar pattern. There would be a few times of struggle and
pain. But there would be decades in between of peace and safety. The end of
life might be rough, but only after a life of peace and blessings. Is it so bad
to endure five years of suffering if before it had fifty years of joy? Rejoice in what God gives you over time. The
more you give thanks, the more you will appreciate the blessings that are yours
always.
Blessedness does not come from the outside world. It comes from the
heart. It is not an absence of trouble, but an absence of cares in our trouble.
Suppose you were one of those seasick Pilgrims, hanging over the rails
of that little Mayflower as those
sailors laughed at you. Would you be giving thanks? Probably not. But suppose
that God suddenly gave you the gift of seeing time sideways. You saw yourself
on the boat, of course, but you could see on ahead. There you were, sitting at
the feast with the Massasoit tribe, building a settlement, having children,
prospering in a new world. Suppose then, you would see beyond your lifespan,
and see the descendants of your children as leaders in the land, prospering
more than any nation or people have ever prospered. Do you think if you could
see what God was doing in the future, you would have any trouble giving thanks?
That is just what the Pilgrims did.
Paul also had
that same vision. That’s how he learned to endure whether he abounded or was
abased. He knew that neither state could bring contentment or take it away. He
was content as long as he had Christ.
Don’t wait until later to give thanks—learn to start now. When we thank God,
we recognize that He is in control, and that the important things in life come
from Him alone. The Pilgrims knew this. Paul knew this, too. God’s grace in
Christ will help us to endure the worst of circumstances, and give us
contentment today.